“The key to physical escalation, David DeAngelo had said in his seminar, is always two steps forward, one step back.” “Girls don’t respect guys who buy them drinks.” But no matter what, every day you go out and you learn and you improve. Some days you go out and catch every wave and think you’re a champ other days you don’t get one good wave and you think you suck. “In some respects, surfing reminded me of sarging. Most of the time, however, she’s just as shy or insecure as the less attractive women he’s ignoring- if not more so.” “Most men make the mistake of believing that an attractive woman who doesn’t talk to or acknowledge him is a bitch. “…lions bite each other’s mane during sex, and how pulling the back of the hair is another evolutionary trigger.” It’s a disease AFCs get: They become obsessed with a girl they’re neither dating nor sleeping with, and then start acting so needy and nervous around her that they end up driving her away.” “The PUAs have a name for this: They call it one-itis. “Women are sick of generic guys asking the same generic questions: “So where are you from?… What do you do for work?” With our patterns, gimmicks, and routines, we were barroom heroes, saving the female of the species from certain ennui.” You should speak to her over your shoulder, so it looks like you might walk away at any minute.”

Always come in from the front, but at a slight angle so it’s not too direct and confrontational. ““Never,” Sin admonished me in his adenoidal voice, “approach a woman from behind. If he takes any longer, then not only is the girl likely to think he’s a creep who’s been staring at her for too long, but he will start overthinking the approach, get nervous, and probably blow it.” A man has three seconds after spotting a woman to speak to her, he said. And by smiling, you look like you’re together, you’re fun, and you’re somebody… Besides confidence and a smile, we learned, the other characteristics of an alpha male were being well-groomed, possessing a sense of humor, connecting with people, and being seen as the social center of a room.” As soon as you walk in a club, the game is on. ““The number one characteristic of an alpha male is the smile,” he said, beaming an artificial beam. Every time you do an approach, you are playing this game.”

The Game by Neil Strauss